I didn’t orgasm or have sex for 10 days and I lived to tell about it.

I know that’s a ridiculous title.  There are people who are physically incapable of orgasm, some are mentally incapable.  I don’t mean to make light of their struggles, but for me, someone who orgasms whenever she chooses and rarely denies herself anything ever 10 days of abstinence was a real struggle.  But it was enlightening.  And I couldn’t have done it without all of you and your support.

A few readers and some bloggers joined me (AM for a while, Kyle, D i i r r t y, True, and Rincewind that I can think of off the top of my head – let me know if I forgot you and I’ll add you).  We championed each other and laughed at our travails.  What I didn’t expect was the epiphanies I had.  I mean, I guessed I might have some, but it was more a joke than anything else.

First and foremost, I got my control back.  I don’t think I’ve ever felt this way about my libido before.  I turned down giant cock and lived to tell about it.

Secondly, I actually followed through on something.  I am a great starter of things, a terrible finisher.  Baby steps, people.  Baby steps.

And lastly, the 10 orgasms I had for each of the 10 days I went without were body-rocking.  I even squirted, which is incredibly rare for me during masturbation.

I think I’ll do this little exercise again some time.  It was a raving success.

A 40-something single mother who writes honestly about sex, body image, D/s, relationships, her nervous tics, and how much she loves to fucking fuck. She also likes to show you her tits.

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14 thoughts on “I didn’t orgasm or have sex for 10 days and I lived to tell about it.
  1. Yes, this has been awesome watching you grow so much stronger as a woman as a result of the exercise. I also had some great results myself, clarifying mind and heart and focus on the right things and people. I’m still a mess, but aren’t we all some days. Love, G

  2. weirdly enough I’m still going, think for me it helped that I was moving house at the same time so have just been stressed out…. but need to find me some relief now, where are my porn links :D

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