I’m still out celebrating the end of my softball season.
Gimme a couple of hours and I’ll have it up and running.
I’m still out celebrating the end of my softball season.
Gimme a couple of hours and I’ll have it up and running.
The Bad Texter, for lack of a better word, is fat. I’m not using that word in a derogatory way as it’s come to be held in casual speak, it’s simply a fact. If you carry a certain amount of extra weight on your body in the form of fat — well, you’re fat.
He’s also sexy, confident, smart, tall as fuck, and hilarious among other identifiers.
I’ve been worried since I met him how the mechanics of sex would work with someone of his size. I even Googled “How to fuck a fat guy” with some interesting results.
There were some How To’s (missionary might not be best if he can’t support his own weight) and some personal accounts of lovin’ the extra cushioned pushin’. Mostly what I learned was to not pretend he wasn’t fat and to work around any physical limitations as I might anything else that could limit a partner. I wouldn’t expect to ride a guy if he had a sunburn on his back, after all. Likewise, I wouldn’t expect a fat guy to get all acrobatic with me like a fit fireman could.
He arrived a few minutes late carrying a nearly empty box of Bud Light and his cap on backwards. We hugged awkwardly in the entryway and I invited him into the kitchen where I was prepping our lunch. We made small talk for a minute before he came around behind me and began to touch me.
His big belly pressed into my back as I leaned into him.
“Is it ok if I touch you?” he asked huskily.
I nodded and turned around to face him just as he bent to capture my mouth. His soft lips plied mine apart and his beard tickled. He massaged my breasts and moaned and I put my arms around his expansive waist and pulled his softness into me.
I held his face in my hands and wondered at the padding that was present even on his neck.
“I want to be inside of you,” he whispered against my mouth. “Where can we go to do this?”
I laughed and told him there was a secret room in the back and led him to my bedroom.
He deftly untied my bikini top and pushed my dress and bottoms to the floor and set me back gently on the bed. I spread my knees and he knelt between them and his ginger head dipped below my line of sight.
His mouth, hot, wet, and soft licked me and played a sweet tune. He’s the first man in years that has spent every chance he can get between my thighs this way. The Neighbor actively avoided it — it intimidated him — and my other more recent lovers have been much too busy throwing me around the room and fucking me senseless.
Cunnilingus has its place on the menu, but for my lovers it’s never been a main course. For BT, it’s his forté.
I laid there and thought about it, thought about how different this man has been for me already and I pressed my thighs against his face in pleasure and felt him groan against me.
He stood up and made a move to stick his uncut cock in me.
“Do you have a condom?” I asked. He shook his head.
“I can pull out if you want,” he said.
“Oh, no. I’m not afraid of pregnancy. Safety first. There’s a box under my bed. I might have some.” I prayed I had some regular condoms in there. The last I knew The Neighbor had left a bunch of Magnums behind two years ago.
He bent over and pulled the box out and there, shining like Willy Wonka’s Golden Tickets, was the strip of Magnums. He chuckled, I groaned and shuffled giant dildos, butt plugs, lube, and silk ties around until I found a regular condom. “Don’t judge me,” I said handing it to him referring to my cardboard box of debauchery.
“No, never,” he replied with a smile.
I could see his erection flagging under the condom application. “I have a hard time staying hard in condoms,” he explained.
“Who doesn’t?” was my reply. There was no way he was sticking it in me without protection.
As he worked it on I took a closer look at his hulk, his ginger-colored body hair masked a vast network of freckles, his thighs were thick trunks of bone and muscle, and his belly creased over in a soft, swell of white skin. I liked how he stood tall in the daylight and blocked out the sun.
He dove back down between my thighs and worked his cock with his free hand for a few seconds before standing up and climbing on top of me. His belly pressed on mine as he pushed in, slow and deep; I couldn’t lock my ankles around him, but his warm bulk thrilled me as I helped to pull him in closer with my heels.
I opened my eyes to see him staring at me intently. Our gazes locked and he pulled out and flipped me around. I backed up to the edge of the bed and he thrust back inside. His big hands were gentle on my hips; he whispered how good my fucking pussy felt. “Hy, Hy, your pussy feels so fucking good.”
I gripped the covers and pressed back into him wishing he’d hit me or grip the skin beneath his hands in a meaty fist, but he seemed unsure if that would be ok and the last time I begged him to suck harder on my nipples he shied away from going the distance to cause me a little pain.
I moaned about his fucking cock and relished the feel of the slide and my pulse quickened when he told me he was about to cum.
“Please cum,” I said as my nipples scraped against the bedding and I rocked back on him as hard as I could.
He came in rolling waves and I felt him quiver and tremble behind me. I rolled to my back and he stood towering above me breathing heavily. “I’m a little out of shape,” he said to no one.
I laughed and answered, “It’s all cardio, man.” He laughed at that, too, and went to toss the condom. When he returned I patted the empty space next to me and turned on my Hitachi.
“Grab my breasts, please,” I told him. He squeezed them in great handfuls and pinched the dark pink nipples hard enough I could feel it. I quickly roared up to an orgasm and fell limp in his arms.
We laid like that for several minutes not talking, just panting and feeling one another’s skin.
We got up, got dressed, and continued working on lunch prep. Down at the pool we chatted easily then slipped into the water. I hovered over him on the steps and we kissed a little. It felt natural — strangely natural — and I thought “Of course I have this normal, lovely dating scenario with a guy whose sexual proclivities might not match mine.” Why does everything have to be a compromise? Why can’t this guy be a maniac in bed and all these other wonderful things?
I haven’t written him off, but I am leery of a future between us. There are obstacles I can’t share without giving away our identities, but suffice to say they exist. I’m also not sure he could ever get on the same page as me sexually speaking and it has nothing to do with his size. Also: bad texter.
He’s out of town this coming weekend and I’d love to see him again, so I’ve offered to make him dinner since I have Peyton this week. It seemed like a great idea at the time, but when I woke up stone sober without his charismatic smile or my Vino Verde fogging up my brain I’m not so sure anymore. We’ll see.
I’d like another go at this guy. That much I know is certain. I feel compelled to kick the door open for him in some way. I almost begged him to touch my asshole as he softly held onto my hips and ground into me, but I didn’t want to scare him away. Maybe next time I can make it clear that he may do nearly whatever he likes to me. I thought for sure cumming on my face at the end of our last date would have been a dead give away as to my disposition. I guess not.
No, not this Christmas, sadly. It’s just me fondly reminiscing again about one of the best nights of my life.
Last year I wrote the following blurb:
Peyton is with my ex for the next few hours and I am home alone watching a bunch of hokey Christmas movies and sipping on cheap champagne. The Neighbor is in colder weather with his family and I am alone with a herd of Christmas animals I’ve volunteered to watch for a few days. Life is pretty good at the moment. I just wish I had wood for my fire — it’s somehow lonelier without one.
This year is much the same as last and all the others: Peyton is with my ex for a few hours so I’m alone, I’ve got the herd of animals (but they’re mine this time), no wood for the fire (or a fireplace, but I like to watch the Fireplace Channel so I sort of have one — don’t judge!), and The Neighbor is once again in much colder weather with his family.
What’s different is someone loves me. Not a bad change.
I love this Christmas Story of mine not just because of its salacious nature, but because it marks the beginning of everything for me. It happened 4 years ago today, seemingly a lifetime, but just like yesterday. I can still close my eyes and feel them on me. That was a night to go in the record books. And without it I might not be where I am today.
Troy reached out to me recently — filled with his own nostalgia I presume — and suggested that he, Jack and I get together for a drink. I told him I’d love to. Troy and I crackle when together and Jack is the perfect grounding unit. It could be a lot of fun, like old school-time buddies except we’re talking cocks and pussies, not keg stands and finals.
I wish everyone a very Merry Christmas and hope that today brings you much love and warmth!
Lots of love,
The sun warmed my back as I climbed the three sets of stairs to The Neighbor’s door. It was barely 8 am and the morning chill was already beginning to fade. I slipped my key into the lock and turned the handle. He’d left the deadbolt unlocked for me.
I stole into his quiet space, kicked his shoes out of the way of the door and crept quietly across the apartment to his bedroom doorway. He lay tangled in his comforter, the ceiling fan whirred overhead.
I set my purse and keys down and cringed when they jingled. He didn’t stir. My zipper sounded like a roar as I undid my jeans; I quickly kicked off my shoes, followed by my cheap Target Harvard sweatshirt and climbed into bed with him. He continued to slumber.
I pressed my cold skin against his back and let his round ass fill out the cradle of my pelvis. He was a warm cloud and I clung to him and breathed him in, his entire backside pressed against me.
“Good morning, Hy,” he said to the window filling with light.
“Good morning, TN,” I whispered into his neck.
I stroked and scratched him and he stretched and purred, climbing his way out of a Lunesta haze. I pulled him over onto his back and grabbed his giant morning wood and began to gently pump it as it pulsed and flexed in my grip.
We didn’t say much; I let the silence wrap around me as I gently lured him to greater consciousness. I knelt between his knees and took him in my mouth. Soft, wet pulling. Soft, sweet moans. I kept at him imagining my greatest morning hope of his release into my mouth, but he stopped me and roughly grabbed my shoulders and pressed me down into the mattress.
“You are the best alarm clock ever,” he said, his gaze intense.
He was wide awake now.
I spread my knees and he plunged into me. Our eyes locked on one another like long lost lovers. No sentiment, just hunger.
He moved in me and I closed my eyes, felt him fill me to the brink. “God I fucking love your cock,” I moaned.
He pumped and ground and rode me like the little morning whore that I was. He curled into me and growled and I held on for dear life, then my ankles went up to his shoulders. Orgasm burst through me and I shook my head from side to side in desperate protest. A tear slipped out and ran down my cheek.
He stopped and I lay panting. He looked at me for a moment then lay to my side and put my legs over his hips. He was buried deep inside of me. “Use the *Doxy,” he said gently with a lift of his chin to the British magic wand that lay beside me.
“We haven’t done this in a while,” he added. It’s been almost a year since my Hitachi died.
I punched the On button and adjusted the speed to the middle setting and thought about Goldilocks and all her choices. I pulled the comforter between me and the buzzing head and instantly blasted off, my pussy stuffed full of his rock hard cock.
He thrust, just enough, and with each penetration I climbed higher until I fell off the fucking mountain with a yell and many expletives.
“Again,” he said the instant I landed.
I felt like saying, “Ok, Coach!” but only nodded instead and started the climb.
But two wasn’t enough for him, no, he coaxed 3 more from me. By the fifth, I was trembling, damp with sweat. His cock was as hard as ever, his hands filled with breast. I dropped the speed down to the gentlest and let my clit meet the challenge with less intensity.
His body nudged mine with a rhythm matching that of his alarm clock. In the past, fucking to his alarm reduced us to giggles. Not that morning. I ignored it and concentrated on the pulsing in my hole, the stretch and swell, and came with a boom a fifth and final time.
I hung on his cock, limp and satiated.
I turned to look at him, the treetops in the window a bright green. “And here I thought I was just going to give you a blowjob this morning; I had no idea I was gonna get some morning sex!”
He grinned and looked at his phone. “I really have to get up now. I have to be at work in 20 minutes.”
He pulled out and left the room for a minute. I laid in his bed feeling motherfucking lucky.
He came back in and helped me up and watched me as I got dressed. At his door, still nude, he gave me a kiss and a hug and I walked out into the bright morning light. When I turned around he was standing in his doorway.
The bright sun reflecting off the building nearly blinded me and I could only make out the dusky pink cock that hung like ripe fruit between his muscular thighs, his white body glowed from the shadows behind him.
I could tell he was smiling at me, watching me watch him.
“You’re beautiful,” I called as I started walking down out of sight. “And you can do that every time I leave in the morning!”
And he has.
[Ed. note: TN Tuesdays is a semi weekly meme which will share more of The Neighbor with my Internet Boyfriend. All photos have his approval before I post them. As always, he’s eager to see what you guys think and has requested that I share any comments.]
*Doxy post coming soon!
It’s funny how we get attached to things being a certain way, it’s like I’m a little old lady who likes her mashed potatoes lumpy.
In my old room, for example, I came to rely heavily on my east-facing windows which were to the left of my bed for my natural light. It was so good in there, in fact, that most of my pictures were sans filter. But here, in the new apartment, the orientation is all different. My window still faces east, but now it’s on my right and I am much closer to it making my pictures very washed out or distorted by sunbeams — awful, I know — but I have a certain look I’m going for so this will take some getting used to.
So when I finally got to sleep in today I decided to practice a little.
It’s always a little humbling to have to push a cat out of the way (repeatedly) of you trying to take nude selfies — doesn’t he know I’m trying to be all sexy?! — but I persevered and managed to get these two pics kitty-free.
I actually don’t mind the little light show, honestly, and I rather like the different look my new room affords! Maybe it’s time to get creative with shadows and kitties! Meow!
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The first Monday of each month, N. Likes of My Dissolute Life and I will be highlighting two other bloggers whom we find to be share-worthy/intriguing/awesome/funny/controversial/fill-in-the-blank. We share our picks with one another and then give our two cents, so our readers get two takes on two new writers.
This month, I couldn’t resist a blogger that hardly needs my help (I already have her in my sidebar), but whom I so greatly respect I felt compelled to share her more officially with you all, and N., well, he found a doozy of a writer that I think will make everyone stroke their chin a little – and no, that’s not a euphemism.
I’m interested in reading men write about sex. Oddly, I’ve found precious little of it on the internet, and most of what I’ve found that’s been interesting to me has been by men who have sex with men (for example, I’m a big fan of this blog). Thanks to L, I recently discovered this series of accounts by a British man of his adventures with the women who work in Amsterdam’s Red Light District. I’m not linking to a specific post, but rather, to the whole blog. It’s fascinating to me.
Mostly, I have to say, because it is so unappealing to me. The model of prostitution – and of sex with prostitutes – documented by this man seems holds no appeal for me. He comes across as unsentimental, something of a tender sociopath. He’s not a sadist, he’s not cruel, but the women he describes hardly come across as anything other than the possessors of holes – holes which, for fifty euros he can do various things with/to. I’m not really sure what to do with his writing. He writes well, he recounts his sexual encounters, but the unapologetically transactional nature of everything about which he writes is singularly off-putting to me. The blog ends up being compelling at the same time that it’s neither hot nor particularly thoughtful or thought-provoking.
I found myself wondering (in a bit of terror) as I read, “Is this how I sound? Am I this oblivious, indifferent, to the women I have sex with?” I sure hope not. I like women. I really like the women I have sex with. Not just because they have sex with me, because they “let” me finger them, or fuck them. But because they conspire with me to invent a super-hot reality that gets us both off.
But if you want to get a comprehensive, if highly specific, take on the Amsterdam red light district, this is a great place to do it.
Man… I don’t even know what to say. I am totally turned off by this writing and only mildly interested from a psychological stand point, like, what the fuck? His writing is unapologetic, not at all introspective, and his callousness towards the act of sex is basically uninteresting to me. But, apparently he has an audience.
My feelings about the blog are also unrelated to prostitution. I’m generally ambivalent about the whole thing (prostitution, I mean) and so long as everyone consents, I really don’t give a fuck. My hopes for it are for the sex workers’ safety, satisfaction (work-wise, not necessarily sexually, though that’d be awesome, too), and autonomy (whatever that means or looks like to her).
Obviously, I haven’t read the entire blog, but I think it was him writing “Whatever, in the interests of research she will do,” in regards to having sex with a “plump girl” (who also might as well be fat because his preference is strictly for toned women), that made me feel like I was done. It’s all too manual-like for me. I prefer to know and feel the human interest in someone’s writing, not just learn about a human’s interest.
If I ever decide to fuck a Dutch prostitute I know whose blog I’ll read, but until then…
I don’t disagree with anything Hy says. Except. I think glimpses of unfamiliar worlds, particular those having to do with sex, generally are interesting to me, especially to the extent that they portray those worlds not so much naturalistically as through the eyes and mind of the viewer. This is what I like, what I find compelling about this blog. It exposes me to a world, a way of thinking, I’d otherwise never know.
And No, N. you do NOT come across as a gentle sadist who is just looking for the next hole. You come across as a wonderfully horny man who digs the sex with the women. That dude just sounds like a consumer.
Girl on the Net’s On Extreme Porn Close-ups.
I couldn’t have said it better than Carina did herself: it becomes gynecological. I’ve always figured that I like to see what I might normally see during an encounter, and even though I occasionally fuck chicks, I have never spent much time looking directly up into her vagina. It’s more of a glance to see the lay of the land and then I get down to business. Those close up shots in porn make me distinctly uneasy and ruin any kind of “moment” for me.
So there’s that.
But then the comments of this particular post take the whole conversation of porn somewhere entirely else. Some reader decides to say that all porn is anti-feminist and openly misogynistic. Girl on the Net responds succinctly and directly, politely.
It’s exactly this about her, her openness and clarity — which allows her to claim disagreement in an intelligent, thoughtful way — that brings me back around again and again.
In general, she also writes about sexy, real, provoking themes and experiences and her honesty is unmistakeable. She doesn’t write erotica, per se, she writes about sex, sexuality, and herself from a self-deprecating feminist voice that I thoroughly delight in.
I feel smarter after I’ve read her. Plus, she and I feel similarly about lots of other things, too.
Yup. I agree totally. I love GOtN. She’s in my sidebar, and I read her every post. I remember when she wrote this, and I agreed then. I just re-read the comments and was struck by some of the claptrap that’s been written there.
She is a truly great writer. Unapologetic, smart, funny, iconoclastic. Read her.
With the exception of some lost comments on a couple of posts and about a million little things to do in the new apartment, I have successfully completed two moves! Yay!
Thanks again to all the ladies who chose to participate this week and I just want to say I miss some of my regulars, but I’ll be patient and hope you come back to us.
Next week’s Boobday theme is SILLY. What? Boobs aren’t always serious and/or sexy!
Emails sent to me with all of this info plus the theme will be given preferential treatment. I will not look up links.
My SOFT tits:
Layers upon layers of softy stuff.
NOT my SOFT tits:
I chose this because I had just showered, and I felt clean and soft, laying in a bed with soft blankets, and my nipple, once hard, was once again soft. I just felt soft, literally. ;-)
I am softly rubbing my nipple.
This time of year, I feel like the animals coming out of hibernation- still a bit of extra energy stored away, and far from toned. So “soft” is particularly apt to describe my body. Cozy and cuddly might work too. ;) I decided to soften the photo as well, using natural light and filters.
Silverdrop’s nipples might be rock hard (they usually are) but her breasts are soft – does that count for the theme?
Shooting Boobday pictures took my mind off things this week. A litle bit of softness in my week was more than needed.
So here is my breast, nestled in soft red feathers…
It’s happening. I will no longer be 5 seconds from my lover. We will be a car ride apart, clothes will be almost always necessary, a call-ahead check in order. The Neighbor will always be TN, but our special His and Her apartments will be a thing of the past in a matter of hours.
Since I’m up to my ears in boxes and dream about organizing my shelves I haven’t given this change much space, but The Neighbor has. When the boxes first showed up in my apartment he was visibly distraught. When they began to fill up and things disappear from sight he would whimper and come for a hug. He was vocal about how much he hated it and wanted it to stop, but it is financially impossible for me to stay here. Literally, impossible. So, I’m going and he has to let the universe push us down this path.
It’s hard to imagine that three years ago my heart was in such tatters. I was 4 months out of my marital home and completely out of my mind to fix it with dicks galore. Two years ago, the heart was on the mend, but it had attached itself to this fidgety, weird young man next door who, despite our ridiculous chemistry, refused to admit we were more than just friends. Hell, I couldn’t admit it, either, honestly. And a year ago, we had decided to be monogamous and my guilt rose about my secrets even as my heart admitted it really was love between us. Two goddamned idiots with more than enough fear of our feelings to go around. And now, here we are, in love, committed, fucking happy.
It’s a goddamned miracle.
He’s worried that the move will cause us to break up. I sincerely can’t imagine how, but that’s just him: he doesn’t like change and he doesn’t want to lose me. And he’s vowed to cuddle with me every single night as usual. I can live with that.
But really, I have no doubts that we will survive this for multiple reasons. The least of which being I’m only moving 2 minutes away.
Two minutes away, people!
I am one lucky lady. So so lucky.
/smiley faces all over the goddamned place
Also, I’ve moved to self-hosted! Yay! So, you may notice some things are a little different around my page and the mobile page may not be at all like what you’re used to. Please be patient with me as I work to get it back to the way I’d like and if anyone you know wonders where I’ve gone, just tell them where they can find me!
I’m not sure what you’ll see as I do some heavy blog maintenance later this afternoon, but don’t worry, I haven’t quit! The blog may be down for a few hours or a couple of days, I’m not really sure which, but it’s all very routine.
I’ll be back better than ever before you know it!
In the meantime, here’s a pic I just snapped for your viewing pleasure.
Because I made this happen.
OHMYGOD ALL PICTURES HENCE FORTH WILL HAVE KITTIES ON THEM!
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