Friday, May 23rd, is FREESTYLE Boobday!

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I’m about to head out to my first real vacation 8 years — EIGHT YEARS!!  I’m going with a girlfriend and our kids and her three dogs.  We’ll be like the Clampetts.  All we need is a rocking chair strapped to the SUV.

Hopefully I’ll come back with a golden tan and highlights in my hair to hide the silver that insists on popping up.  Fucking hair.  The Neighbor will not be joining us, though, which is a bummer.  You see, he has a thing against vacations.  For real.  I blame his parents for that one.  Maybe one day I’ll get him to consider it, but for now, it’s just a Mama’s Gone Wild kinda weekend (with children), and I’m ok with that.  Woohoo!  VACATION!!

Next week’s theme is MIRRORS (we have reader, Nick, to thank for that one!).

And to those of you who sent me more ideas, thank you!  My problem was that I hadn’t made a separate folder for ideas so they got lost in my inbox, but I’ve fixed that problem and I’ll be more organized going forward.

xx

Hy

Want to participate in Boobday?  Go here and read the Guidelines and State of the Boob Union to answer any questions, but this is the TL;DR of what I need each time:

  1. an attached pic

  2. a sentence about why you chose this particular photo

  3. if you want to be anonymous or not

  4. a hyperlink or URL to your Twitter handle (if you have one)

  5. a hyperlink or URL to your blog post (if you have one and post, it must have my Boobday banner and a link back to me and only posted on Friday)

  6. make sure your phone and/or camera does not keep your location information! 

Emails sent to me with all of this info plus the theme will be given preferential treatment.  I will not look up links.

My FREESTYLE tits:

Hyacinth Jones on her knees
Faisal also makes a shady appearance in this one.

I’m kneeling right where The Neighbor lay 10 minutes before.  He’s a wonderful body pillow, by the way.

NOT my FREESTYLE tits:

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@KaylaLords lets her ladies loose.

I’m back, baby!

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@BeckandHerKinks gives us a view of her pretty collar.

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Miss Pretty in Pink Dawn.
I took advantage of some kids free time, the sun was shining and I had some serious fun taking pictures that morning :-)
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Bisexual Minx (aka Krystal) admires the view as we admire her.

Relaxing and enjoying the View on our mini-getaway with my Loves.

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Tis gets nostalgic for us.

I just happened to celebrate my wedding anniversary recently and thought it would be fun to surprise B by wearing the same lingerie I wore the night we were married, complete with tear it received when he tried to get me out of it. ;) Happy Anniversary Baby!

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The stunning G, aka Greta, revealing all of herself.

Basking in the setting sun
Remembering words of a wise one

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Meet Shelly, everyone! This is her first time and she proudly shares a little baby bump with us, too!!

I picked this photo because I am totally in love with my pregnant boobs, and I love how this gets a little part of my belly in too.

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The lovely @MollysDailyKiss lets us peek through the bars, so to speak.

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Cara gives us view #1…
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… and view #2.

    I was very sleepy taking this. Half up, half down.
A little more creative.

Friday, May 16th, is PANTIES Boobday!

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This week was a bit of a departure because I chose a theme which might redirect the focus away from our boobies.  My thought process behind it was to force us all to take pics from new angles and find the beauty in a new shape or view.  I think it worked!  You ladies are stunning this week and some of you have panties that I really wish I had!

On another note, I’m curious if any of you would be interested in a Boobday Tutorial series.  It’s not meant in any way to suggest that your pics aren’t already amazing, but rather to help anyone who feels stuck or often defeated by the process.  If I get a few people who are interested (even those who don’t participate in Boobday), then I’ll put something together.  Maybe something based on your questions and needs, if any.

Next week’s theme is FREESTYLE.  Because, no joke, I can’t think of one stupid mofo’ing theme!  So do whatever you like, ladies.  I can’t wait to see what you come up with!

xx

Hy

Want to participate in Boobday?  Go here and read the Guidelines and State of the Boob Union to answer any questions, but this is the TL;DR of what I need each time:

  1. an attached pic

  2. a sentence about why you chose this particular photo

  3. if you want to be anonymous or not

  4. a hyperlink or URL to your Twitter handle (if you have one)

  5. a hyperlink or URL to your blog post (if you have one and post, it must have my Boobday banner and a link back to me and only posted on Friday)

  6. make sure your phone and/or camera does not keep your location information! 

Emails sent to me with all of this info plus the theme will be given preferential treatment.  I will not look up links.

 

 

My PANTIES tits:

Hyacinth Jones in panties
I rather like how my tits look wall-eyed.

NOT my PANTIES tits:

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Anisa has a last hooray.

These are currently my favorite panties and as I’m currently losing weight it may be one of the last times they fit. Darn, I’ll have to buy all new undies. ;-)

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SassyCat has a special message below.

  This one is dedicated to the bloke who wanted to see me in my white knickers.

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Dawn dazzles me.

These panties are from JK’s favourite brand of lingerie: Simone Pérèle, from the Tattoo line!
I like them very much!

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Anonymous Aussie dug this one out of her archives for us.

I really like this pic as you can actually see the relief I feel as I’ve released my boobs from my brassiere!

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I’m sure TN’ll love your inspiration!
… your recent pic of TN inspired us. Hope you like it – hope TN does too.
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Gotta love Kinky Biker Mom’s interpretations of the themes!
celebrating boobday with my favorite pair of panties
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BisexualMinx gives us a lot more than just panties to look at!

Pool Time Fun… the indoor kind  (wink wink)

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Tis better watch her back… I just might steal that lingerie!

This just happened to be the last pic I took, but it was one of my favorites. I love that the detail in the bra really popped and then the panties are there but fuzzy and off in the distance…

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Friday, September 27th, is Boobday!

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Another Friday, another Boobday.  I’m a big fan of this week’s submissions.  They’re everyday-beautiful.

Sweet snapshots as she walks by the mirror in a steamy bathroom.

The view of a man on his knees.

The view of someone above her.

Cleavage during the work day.

A quick pic on the side of the road.

A moment frozen in time as she is rendered his toy box.

And of course mine, my usual morning pics of a body poured out on dark sheets with a lonely heart inside.  I always wish he were there and could see this with his own eyes.  It makes things more real, don’t you think?

Later today I’m heading to Noodle’s, my first visit to her neck of the woods.  I can’t wait to sit on her porch and see the sunset she’s often texted me with my own eyes.  Seeing, sharing a space, makes things that much better.  It closes a gap.

The rest is all just imagination.

xx

Hy

Want to participate in Boobday? Read the guidelines and send me a pic. I don’t censor the images, so there’s no “making the cut.” That would completely defeat the purpose of Boobday. I want to provide a space for women (cis and trans, bi, straight, gay, skinny to fat) to expose themselves and feel proud of what their mamas gave them.

If you don’t include your Twitter handle, your post URL, and whether or not you want to be anonymous, I’m not going to do any investigating, but also won’t assume anything, so be sure to have all the info every single time! If it’s not in your email, it won’t be in the post.  No blog post required if you just want to post on mine.

Also, only post your Boobday pic on Fridays and always include the Boobday button in the post and a link back to me.

My tits:

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NOT my tits:

 

 

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Foggy tits. @KinkyBikerMom

 

 

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G, post-shower. Curvy, curly, wet, and gorgeous. @CurvyMilfy

 

 

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Freckles stands tall.

 

 

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Kayla is watched. @KaylaLords

 

 

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I had clips on my nipples last night for about 15 seconds. I can’t imagine what this is like. It’s a powerful moment, frozen in time. @SilverdropUK

 

 

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Scarlett gets cheeky and wonders if you like her nails. @atrueunfolding

 

 

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Anonymous Aussie assured me she pulled over to take this pic. The spring weather was calling to her. And she mostly covered up when she got back on the road.

 

 

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Beck’s collar, her tatt, and her breast. @Beck42069 (and I finally just got what the numbers stand for!)

 

 

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Anisa got dressed up for work.

My political career is ruined: I have too many tit pics on the internet and a secret sex blog

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I read something recently that made me sit up straight. Liza, a fellow secret sex blogger, relayed her experiences behind the velvet ropes of writing about a private sex life for an anonymous audience. She wrote for xoJane about the stress of having a secret sex blog and the pressures to share nude photos (emphasis mine),

The easiest way to get more [traffic] meant traveling a path I resisted. There is tremendous pressure on women sex bloggers to show our bits to the world, to prove we aren’t hideous hags, and to fuel reader fantasies. I’m no prude, but we all have limits, and sharing naked pics on the internet is mine.

On one hand, I proved sex blogging can be sexy without sharing naked snapshots. On the other, I suspect some in the sex blogger world never took me seriously because I refused to take off my clothes. I’m glad I’ve never posted nude photos, and I’m glad the people who do take me seriously are the people who appreciate what I write. I’ve saved countless emails and comments in which readers share how my writing moved them and helped them evince a change in their own sex lives, and that feels amazing.

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First, I don’t feel pressure to expose myself because, by nature, I am an exhibitionist. Call me slutty, trampy, easy, whatever, but the fact remains, I enjoy showing off my body for no other reason than the thrill of it.

My traffic is the same whether I post nudie pics or not. In fact, some of my most-commented-on and/or popular posts are image-less (Sometimes, I want to shut it all down, I fucked a stranger. While blindfolded. And I was watched., He takes me for granted, and I know how to squirt) or rated PG (Holding my breath, Please excuse my vanity, and Neither of us could resist), therefore I feel as though exposing myself is entirely my choice, not something I have to do to feel taken seriously or to increase my traffic.

And second, I suspect I am no less respected or shown less interest from the sex-blogging community because sometimes I choose to keep it wrapped up; some of my favorite blogs on the planet use only their words (You Linger Like a Haunting Refrain, Leah Lays London, Theo Black, and Story of Alice).

I share my body with you, the world, most simply because I can and want to. It’s naughty, it’s dangerous, it’s exhilarating, liberating, and a big, fat turn on. It may also come as no surprise that I need the feedback.

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What I get from posting pictures of my body is a sense of self outside of my own head. I see who I am to others reflected in comments and positive words and a passionate kiss from a man who was lucky enough to see the pixels of me earlier that day on his phone. I admit that this is an unconventional approach to a self-esteem, but it works for me.

I reject the notion that I must be all I need to myself, that I should feel beautiful and desirable all on my own. I believe it’s a personal equation for all of us of self and other. It may be that my “other” is a bigger portion than your other, but I’m ok with that. It’s working for me.

I am hanging out to dry every last stitch of my dirty laundry and it is cathartic, titillating, and never-endingly fascinating work. It feels natural to be this open. It’s who I am. Therefore I share my body, in part I suspect, because I am an “attention whore” as N. mentions in his Top 10 Reasons Sex Bloggers Blog Sex. Perhaps that’s the easiest way of categorizing myself — I did just admit to needing attention, after all.

N. could be onto something:

9) We’re exhibitionists who get off on revealing in public what usually is private.

8) We’re attention whores.

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Which brings me to a larger issue in general about exposing oneself online: it is regarded as negative, full stop.

I have used the words “attention whore,” admitted to knowing I may be regarded as “slutty, trampy, easy, or whatever,” and it is implied that I may not be taken as seriously as a real writer because I remove my clothing.

Keeping our bodies hidden from public view is culturally normal in most industrialized countries, but we’re not “culturally normal” here, are we? We read and write about sex when we’ve been raised to believe it is a private act between one woman and one man.

Current cultural mores of our time mean we never express ourselves outside a hetero- monogamous cisgendered norm — or the bedroom — but around these parts, that’s not what we are and it’s certainly not what I am. I am a bisexual, relationship-flexible, sex-positive woman, writer, and exhibitionist. And I show lots of T and A.

I find it odd that a politician can survive sketchy political behavior, even illegal, but if his penis is found on the internet, he is ruined. I shudder to think what would happen to a female politician in a similar situation. She would be labeled “whore” (as if that’s such a bad thing) and every smart, intelligent thing that ever came out of her mouth would be ignored in the shadow of her naked tits because we are uncomfortable with anyone sharing their body with someone outside the confines of a bedroom.

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The message we’ve received about nudity is that it is bad.

It’s partly why I started the Boobday project, to show other people out there that sharing your body with others is a powerful statement of choice, power, and sensuality, that it is a compelling instrument of personal emotional change and acceptance and it doesn’t have to be regarded with such side-eye. It’s not trashy.

I am a size 12, have stretch marks and cellulite and I enjoy exposing my body to strangers. Why a person’s life should be ruined because they express sensuality via an image is completely beyond me.  And why nudity somehow devalues the work it resides next to also escapes me.

To all the politicians of the world, I say, “Just make sure the recipient is trustworthy and don’t include your face or any defining markers!”

But I respect anyone who chooses not to — it works for them — and even I am not so open and free as some. I have hard limits, too: I never show any part of my pussy or pubic hair.

I reserve that for trusted lovers only, men who have seen it with their own eyes. I need to keep something forever hidden from the internet’s prying eyes. I share so much with you all here, I need something of just my own and I have decided it’s explicit photos of my naked body, my vagina, in particular. It’s mine, not yours.

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Sharing naked images is whatever you make of it. For me, it bolsters my self-esteem and empowers me, delivers me attention I crave and provides a platform for discussion of body image, lust, and creativity. I feel no less a creative because I use my naked body in posts. It’s another level of expression, a different kind of art.

And I find those who choose to keep their bodies private for their own lovers no less delectable or interesting. Different strokes for different folks and all that. My only wish is that we could all feel wholly comfortable with our decisions, never pressured and never judged.

I’m curious to learn why others post pictures. Is Liza alone in feeling pushed to post nudity or am I the anomaly? The results will be skewed, I’m sure, since I participate in a fairly nekkid community of writers (and readers) these days. I wish I could put this out to the world at large to see what they would say, but alas, only a certain portion of the population would ever Google “How to squirt” or “I want to fuck my neighbor.”

[Ed. Note: I chose those snippets of Liza’s post because I didn’t relate to them at all. I don’t believe she’s deliberately implying anything about those of us who post pics, but it reads that way each time I go over her entire post.

I have no issue with her feelings about her own blog and herself in it; her piece just inspired me to clarify my own motivations for being such an exhibitionist and why I post naked pictures of myself.

I also wanted to make clear that I felt like my writing was strong enough on its own and that the pics are purely for my emotional benefit, not for traffic’s sake.

I think she’s a talented writer and she shares a rare writing point of view with a smaller number of sex-bloggers, but she certainly doesn’t speak for all of us — not that that was what she was trying to do.]