The Neighbor will answer your questions!

What would it be like for you to discover your lover had been using you as inspiration for a secret sex blog for 2 years?  Would you have been furious?  Complimented? Curious?  Would you have demanded to read every word?  Would you have requested editorial power for future posts?  Would you get involved?

When The Neighbor found out I’d been writing about him for all that time he did nothing but see the half-full glass.  He didn’t view it as a betrayal, he felt flattered!

He trusted me and what I wrote, but he also honored it as mine, so being portrayed in only a positive light wasn’t important to him.  What mattered most was that I had a creative outlet.  That he was my central character was a bonus from his point of view.  He was my muse.

It was difficult at first to accommodate his virtual presence here, I felt shy and just plain fucking weird.  He said he had no interest in stomping around in my sacred space, but nothing was stopping him; he could do whatever he liked, but it turns out he’s a man of his word.  He’s left me completely alone and I’ve found my footing again (and with it plenty of inspiration and motivation to write!).

Last night he and I had a quiet, wonderfully endless evening.  With Peyton at my ex’s for the week I didn’t know what to do with myself and I needed company.  So we ate dinner, watched Castle, played Connect4!, cuddled, chatted, farted around.  Boring couple stuff that’s the best fucking thing in the world.

“Did you do the TN Tuesday post?” he asked.

“I did,” I replied and smiled.  I thought about how fucking cool it was that these words were even coming out of our mouths.

“I have an idea…” he trailed off and I perked up.  “What if I answered some questions for your readers??”

“Like a Q&A??” I almost couldn’t believe my ears!

“Yeah!  You get the questions and then I’ll answer them!”

I squee’d and jumped up and hugged him and promised him I would.

So, sweet Internet Boyfriend, if you happen to have any questions for TN, now’s your chance!

Ask anything you like in the comments (or send me an email if you’re feeling shy) and I’ll pass them on and whip up a post with his answers in a week or two! 

Damn.  I think my head is going to explode from writing that last sentence.  It may not seem like a big deal to y’all, but for me it seems an awful lot like amazingness.  My muse — my central character — is coming to life with his own voice and by his own choice!  It’s like someone is writing my story now…



A 40-something single mother who writes honestly about sex, body image, D/s, relationships, her nervous tics, and how much she loves to fucking fuck. She also likes to show you her tits.

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27 thoughts on “The Neighbor will answer your questions!
          1. LOL! I’m sure you could offer him some suggestions and guidance:-)

            Purely in the name of the art, of course.

  1. This is really hard knowing your back story…
    TN, Considering all of the history between you two, what do you believe keeps you two together?

      1. or he can answer it very logically : “We do by calling each other and making dates…also, we live in the same complex so it’s not difficult”. It Sometimes asking emotional questions to a logical mind is like asking Spock about feelings. Hmmm, What factor or personality trait does Hy possess to have retained you within the close emotional confines of a relationship? : )

  2. 1. If you could take Hy on a date anywhere in the world, where would you go and why?

    2. Which pair of Hy’s panties are your favourite (on her obviously because as far as I know you don’t wear them ;)

    3. Do you ever take a sneaky read of Hy’s blog

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  3. Oooh how exciting!
    I would be flattered just like him, and I would DEFINITELY try to secretly source it down and take a sneaky peak now and then.

    TN: – Are you scared that in episodes of distress and arguments, HY’s writing might have misrepresented you, and if so, – do you care?

    -Having seen pictures of your chunky saucy sexy body, I wonder how you see yourself, How would you rate yourself, and what is your favorite body part?
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