It’s over.

That’s all that needs to be said right now.

It’s over.

A 40-something single mother who writes honestly about sex, body image, D/s, relationships, her nervous tics, and how much she loves to fucking fuck. She also likes to show you her tits.

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40 thoughts on “It’s over.
  1. Hy, I am so sorry. Your posts recently have been heart-breaking, but from the outside I could tell it was over. As someone who is still pretty cynical about relationships, when the other person doesn’t make the effort, you know it’s over. Everyone says: ‘I couldn’t see it coming’. In hindsight: you always can.

    Time now: to be good to yourself. Grieve, do what makes you smile. Your ex is a plantpot. Am sending a hug. My hugs are fucking ace.


  2. Aww Hy :( so sorry you’re going through this. You will get better. Your heart will heal. The scars will remain but you will heal. *HUGS*

    One day when you find someone who who wants to be there, loves you , makes you cum, and is generally the Best you’ll look back on this and shrug it off.

    Grieve and feel it but try not to give it too much of your time and energy.

    <3 S

  3. Hy,
    I am sending big hugs from across the pond.
    It is hard to believe it right now, but it will be for the best in the end. The perfect man for you will come into your life one day. Soon probably. As LurkingS said, you will one day shrug it off.
    Like Kev, I felt it was over too… Don’t ask me why or how, but I could feel it in my heart.
    For now, it hurts. And I’m sending you healing thoughts. And big hugs.
    Much love.
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  4. Oh Hy! I’m so sad to read this. Do your grieving as you need to darling woman, we are all here in the wings, we’ve got your back honey. You’ve many friends that love you & will support you in any way they can. Sending you the biggest warmest hugs from down under. xxxx

  5. His loss!

    The popularity of this post should remind you that you’re not alone, during this time. And that if you need to vent or want some virtual shoulders to cry on…we’re all here for you.

    {Big Hug}

  6. Hi Hy,
    I actually just discovered your blog a couple weeks ago…and I couldn’t stop reading. Your writing is so beautiful. I really think you could publish a book (and this is coming from a gal who has loved to read since 2nd grade and I’m a former librarian). Anyways, I’m 40 years old and never married and definitely have had my heart broken a few times…and it’s horrible, it’s awful…I think it might be the worst pain ever. Rely on those close to you at this time and your therapist…spoil yourself rotten. You are such a beautiful woman and deserve someone who will welcome both you and your son and WANT to spend fun days/nights/mornings upon mornings with the both of you. I’m a big quote person and so let me leave you with this: “Understand that not everything is meant to be understood. Live, let go, don’t worry about what you can’t change.” and then this one “Please don’t worry, I got you. -The Universe.”
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