Friday, April 8th, is Boobday!


You’d think that by now I’d be over it, all the body shaming and self-consciousness, but I’m not.  Nothing’s happened in particular to shake the leaves loose, but some have fallen to the ground regardless.

Typically this first week after my period I am beyond amped up and feeling on top of the world, but not this week.  This week I’ve struggled.

I posted a story on Snapchat (adissolutelife) earlier and could only hear one well-meaning follower’s voice in my head: “I love your chubby body!”

Chubby?!  I mean I know I’m not skinny, but am I “chubby”??  UGH. 

And then I felt immediately awful for even caring, like a massive backslide.  Chubby or not, it makes no difference.  Plus chubby is not a character flaw, it’s a physical state.  Perhaps I am chubby.  That won’t make me any less of a human being, any less of me, would it?  No.

All this to say I’m in a weird place.  Lots of hungry men in my world, lots of hot trysts and sex, I’m working hard on my fitness, I’m feeling strong.  And yet, this chink in my armor exists nonetheless.

I know I’m not alone in this and that’s why I chose this week’s photo which shows my stretchmarks both on my breast and my hip.  The pose is flattering overall and it bolstered my confidence as this exercise always does.  Consider that every other woman who participates here has also gone through a similar struggle to end up with a photo.  Funny how that works.

As always, I love you all and am so proud to host this silly little meme each week.



Full Boobday Guidelines here.

One of two ways to participate: 1) either submit a pic to me via email ( OR 2) submit a link below to your own blog post for Boobday.  And don’t forget to comment on everyone’s posts!  This is all about spreading the love!

My tits:

Hy sideboob

NOT my tits:

Sandy's knockers are indeed some serious weapons.
Sandy’s knockers are indeed some serious weapons.

These things look dangerous


I love feminine things inside a dress shirt and Kim does a fantastic job of illustrating why.
I love feminine things inside a dress shirt and Kim does a fantastic job of illustrating why.

Hanging free and the last of summer’s tan. Have a beautiful weekend y’all :-)


My IG friend, Meredith has graciously decided to share her luscious boobies with us again!
My IG friend, Meredith has graciously decided to share her luscious boobies with us again!


I love this stunning image of Olivia, the curves, the skin and light. Delicious. (IG - @oliviatarose)
I love this stunning image of Olivia, the curves, the skin and light. Delicious. (IG – @oliviatarose)

    This is a pic I took after finding about about a potential threesome.  Yum!!!  Happy boob day !


Click on the links below to see who else is participating!

A 40-something single mother who writes honestly about sex, body image, D/s, relationships, her nervous tics, and how much she loves to fucking fuck. She also likes to show you her tits.

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19 thoughts on “Friday, April 8th, is Boobday!
  1. Chubby!!!! Never heard anything so ridiculous. You have a great body Hy – v sexy & the way you described it once ‘ softly athletic’ fits perfectly. Personally I think a lot of women would love to have your figure – its great & thaks for showing it to us – yes – in the best light and poses as a photographer but au natural – not photoshopped with any of the realities of for instsnce your stretch marks edited out…….It’s beautiful X

  2. I love this meme and I think you’re gorgeous, as is everyone who takes part.
    I think we all have bad body days, I know I do, and I often find I feel better if I post a photo that shows the lumps, bumps and stretchmarks.
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  3. In the past I believe you have referred to yourself as softly athletic…I’d go with that! You look good, don’t mind the haters.

  4. Chubby??….I admire your form. I am way softer in the center but kick some major ass in the gym and guys admire that more. Attitude is what is most important.
    Loving all the pics, but this week I am loving Olivias. Way envoius of the 3-some. I need my boy toys to set me up for one of those.

  5. This is NOT a silly meme, it is a wonderful happy celebration of the female form. As for chubby you, well then I must be positively blubbery if you are chubby.

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  6. Well I have always thought of you as a perfect example of a fine woman, as all your wonderful contributors are too and you all need to be celebrated not denigrated.
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  7. I’m not here to defend anyone, but I’m pretty sure that the comment was meant to be a compliment since so many guys like “chubby.” I’m not saying you are chubby, I’m just saying that I doubt any negative connotation was intended. I (HH) personally love Lo’s curves. She’s lost about 25lbs in the past year or so and, though she looks great, I always thought she looked great. But cultural norms (read: stick skinny anorexic models) have pervaded the psyche and caused so much body dismorphia that “chubby” is not considered the virtue it actually is. Just sayin.
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  8. Someone called you chubby? Even ‘well-meaning’, I’d have been just as upset. But I have to disagree with their assessment. You’re definitely a bit more svelte than I am.

    Lovely photos from the rest of the crew.
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