Some things warm my black heart #SOSS

A few weeks ago some folks put their heads together and came up with a community-building meme called Share Our Shit Saturdays.  It was in response to censorship among the major hosting and social-media platforms against sex- and body-positive images and content.

Patreon kicked out its adult content makers, IG has a long-standing battle against the female form and anything remotely hinting at sexuality, Facebook hates nipples.  Years ago many of us older bloggers jumped the WordPress ship and started self-hosting after some of our friends were wiped out completely with no notice; years’ of work lost in a single algorithmic button-press.

The idea behind #SOSS is that if we all do our part to share what we love then we will circumvent the institutionalized censorship we’re otherwise powerless to prevent.  Admittedly I’m not a huge reader of blogs (I have 5 or 6 that I routinely follow up on), but I promise that when one (or more) really makes me feel something I will share it here, which brings me to Cara.

A seemingly innocuous post about her year in review brought tears to my eyes.  Her [long] list of accomplishments notwithstanding, it was her omission of the love that has entered her life that really moved me and Michael’s loving spotlight on it.  I just love it when Cara writes about herself.

Another post that caught my cold, black heart was Fern’s letter to Sunshine, the man she spent the New Year with.  As I explore my own dominance with a young man I lean on Ferns to be my Fairy Domme-mother and I love the heart and logic which drips from all her words about her experiences.

Love you all.  Enjoy.


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~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

Email from my ex-boy


Two’s Company, Three’s A Crowd

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

Why should we call ourselves sinners?
Repeated Patterns

~Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~

Fuck Yourself

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Erotic Fiction

The Red Chair ~ A Cuckold’s Story – Part 1
Caught Part 3: the punishment
Get up! Stand up!
Chastity Fiction: Aaron & Melissa

Body Talk and Sexual Health

The 39 Days
Do Not Delete

Thoughts and Advice on Kink & Fetish

Tooth and nail
Event Horizons
Bee’s wax

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Sex Q&A: An Adventure into Ass Play
She was poisoned by your utter indifference.
Orally Ambiguous



Erotic Non-Fiction

Walk in, beat him, leave
What Is My Dream Trying to Tell Me?
Thought of Her
The Biter

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